Tuesday, December 27

A Bittersweet Christmas Update

Dear Friends,

As you may have gathered, our beloved Two has been struggling more than usual with her health these last several weeks. She was diagnosed with chronic rejection of her transplanted lungs earlier this year, and, though she has had many ups and downs, the downs have been winning lately. Things reached a crisis point this weekend, culminating in a rather dramatic Christmas Eve medivac flight to the Cleveland Clinic, where her doctors -- whom we all know and love and respect as the very best in the world -- are working to stabilize and keep her comfortable until a new set of lungs become available. She is doing a bit better now than she was a few days ago, but needs all the love and prayers her friends and the universe can spare.

In typical, mind-blowing fashion, Two was singing Christmas carols and cracking jokes as the flight crew whisked her out of the ICU to her waiting jet. She remains the most amazing, resilient, inspiring and deeply beautiful soul I've ever encountered. The privilege of loving her as a sister and friend is perhaps the most humbling thing I've ever done. She is facing this hard road with a song in her heart. Her grace, tenacity, patience and faith during this latest chapter just deepen my love and awe.

We know that so many of you are filled with love and concern for our sweet sister. Thank you. Your support means the world to us all. For those of you who would like to stay informed on her condition, we've added a new tab at the top of the blog, Two's News, which we'll keep as updated as we can. If past experience is any indicator, there may be many days where there isn't much noteworthy info to share, so please don't fret if there isn't a daily post. Please be confident that if anything important happens, we will let you know there.

For now, we wait and we pray. Mom -- who is both a saint and a bulldog and has literally saved Two's life so many times it's terrifying to even try to count -- is with her in the hospital now. She is at the top of the transplant list, but we have no idea when the stars will align for that to happen. It could be days or weeks or months.

During this beautiful season of thanksgiving, renewal and joy, I am so touched and humbled by the love and gratitude Two radiates, despite the incredible challenges she faces. As we celebrate the birth of Christ, I can't help but think how our actions and attitudes are the most eloquent form of worship. I am so easily bogged down by workaday cares, I am wont to forget what a privilege my so-called problems are. I am so grateful for her radiant light, and the way that it warms my soul through dark times and brightens my happiest moments. Thanks to all you wonderful friends who share and reflect that light. Please say a prayer that it will just keep getting brighter.

With Love,

One, and all the TD's

34 comment(s):

  1. She really is a ray of light. Our prayers are with you all.

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  2. all the prayers in the world two!!

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  3. Oh jeez. I'm so sorry to hear this. I don't know if it's wierd for me to be so saddened by this news considering I don't know Two (or any of you) personally, but I am. I guess that says something about the inspiring nature of her person and story. I wish I could help somehow. But, I wish her and all of you the very best and hope hope hope that her health will improve.

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  4. Sending much love and prayers.

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  5. oh td. I'm so sorry. and I'm praying. Love you.

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  6. I too will pray for her full recovery.

    Love,

    Gabi

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  7. I'm so sorry! Please know that you are all in our prayers!

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  8. I am praying for her every minute of the day. I appreciate the updates.
    Love,
    Shelly

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  9. I am saying prayers every day. Charity is my inspiration for singing and for life. Lots of love to your whole family!
    <3 Pam

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  10. Thinking of Charity and all the TDs. Sending gentle hugs.
    Love,
    Janet

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  11. I will keep thinking about and praying for your family.

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  12. Two is in our prayers here in New Hampshire...and amen to everything you said so eloquently about her, One! We love you all.

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  13. One, thank you for this update. It means so much to have these bits of information and an idea of how to focus our prayers. Our hearts and prayers are always with you, Matthew too, but now are constant. So much love is coming your way.

    Hugs and love all around.

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  14. I think of all of you often and pray for you. I miss TWO's smile and optimism. All my love to you. xoxo

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  15. Prayers, love and any other good stuff you need coming your way!

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  16. My prayers are with you Two, and the rest of your family. You are all such amazing people, and even though I've only met a handful of you, I know I would thoroughly love you all.

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  17. Two, Mr Two, and all the TDs are in our prayers. My heart is with you. jane and alan

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  18. So sorry to hear this. All the best, Two!

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  19. Charity! You are in my thoughts and deepest prayers! Be well!

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  20. My love and prayers to your whole family. Two is one of a kind.

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  21. Prayers and love to you all. Charity, I love you and am praying for you.
    Breclyn

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  22. With all the strength of our hearts, continued prayers are raised up to the heavens for you Charity, the most beautiful ray of sunshine this pretty planet has ever seen. You had a miracle once and we pray you may have another.
    Dearest Yoni and TD family, we love you so much!
    Shelley, Darrell, Jon, Darian, Dallin, & Mikayla Iler

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  23. Looking forward to hearing news of progress and Charity's improvement overall. God will be with our dear sister always!

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  24. she brings definition to beauty and grace. beautifully written. our love and prayers...

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  25. Went to the temple today. Put your names on the prayer roll. Hoping a healthy 2012 for Two.

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  26. Thank you all for thde love and prayers!! It means so much to us all.

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  27. Hello TD sisters! This is Yoni's friend from college, and Charity's friend too, Bryana. If you get a chance, could you please message me an address where we can send Charity a card? My email address is BryanaZ513@hotmail.com

    Thank you so much and we are praying BIG TIME for that special lady!

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  28. Just now hearing the news. So sorry I am slow and didn't say anything today. We are all sending up prayers, even the little ones. Let us know if there is more we can do.

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  29. Two, I love you, and I miss your vibrant spirit. I've been praying lots. And lots. bushels of love to you -- and to all the TDs. xoxo

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  30. The entire team at Discovery's Curiosity Project send their thoughts and prayers. Richard

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  31. Your story at EG last year touched our hearts and I hope this episode in your life will end soon so you will continue to inspire and amaze others for many years to come.
    Our thoughts and pryers are with you.

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  32. Sending much Love and Light your way, our beloved sister. :)

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  33. Just reading thru some of your blog. What a beautiful post. You're so right about our "so-called problems" being a privilege. I needed that reminder today, so thank you. :) I'll certainly keep Charity and your family in my prayers.

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